So this post is way overdue, and I’m terribly sorry! It was a really great wedding, maybe even better than the last one, I would say. Here’s why:
1. It was at an old Bavarian Hotel/Pub/Guest House type of location, so we got to overnight there.
2. The groom is a rocket scientist, and studied in the USA, so some of his american friends were there, which meant I HAD SOMEONE TO TALK TO!
3. One of the groom’s friends was married to a Chinese woman, so I wasn’t the only Asian person at the wedding!! (Also, I practiced my Chinese skills with her! She’s been in Germany for 12 years, though, so her German is pretty good, but I could still hear the Chinese accent when she was talking to the other guests, which was super cute. I guess it never goes away – Sorry Mama!!)
4. People got a lot more drunk, which was both a plus and a minus – But it was soooo fun to watch! More about that later.
5. Did I mention the Americans??
Anyway, this wedding was later in the afternoon than the first wedding, so we had plenty of time to get there. My oldest host sister has just gotten her drivers licence (although it’s not a full licence – since she’s only seventeen she still needs adult supervision in order for it to be legal). Since we weren’t in a rush, we decided that she should drive us to the bakery in town. (We were bringing the cake to the wedding.)
First time driver – yoloooo (hahaha) No, she was actually not bad!
We managed to make it to the bakery in one piece, and when we stepped in through the door, I swear, it was like stepping into an episode of Cake Boss (looove that show!!). The cake wasn’t nearly as extravagant as the cakes on the show, obviously, but i still think it was pretty cool for a wedding cake. The bride is a math teacher, by the way, and the groom a rocket scientist as i mentioned earlier.
The Boss and his helper!! 😀
Cake Boxxx
The ceremony was held in the cutest little place, and some of their good friends were playing the music and it was all very lovely. The weather was looking rather grey, though, but it held up, and the snacks were pretty good too! (Cheese sticks and three different types of champagne). As I mentioned, the wedding was already awesome before the ceremony, even, because of the infamous three Americans. Two of them had studied with the groom, and one of them had brought his wife as well. They were all pretty cool, and I was so happy to hear a proper American accent, I didn’t even care that they kept on talking about various star-movies (i.e. Star Wars (apparently it never gets old) and the new Star Trek movie). Actually, I can’t really say I was surprised. They were all rocket scientists after all. Maybe I should have paid more attention when my dad and sister fangirled over that stuff. Nah.
One conversation I could join in on, though, was why the director would cast Benedict Cumberbatch in the movie. (Obviously to be all dark and seductive) But according to the wife, apparently he was much less seductive than he could have been. I don’t know. I should really watch the movie. (I can faintly hear my dads and sisters’ cries of joy – but no, this doesn’t mean that I’m joining your fandom!)
Again – soap bubbles, like last time, although in a different bottle. Liked the design from last time better 🙂 These weddings are really giving me ideas, though, haha 😀
Bride walked down a stone path through the grass, accompanied by two “brides maids”.
Lighting the wedding candle. I guess it’s a tradition here? Also, people don’t stand up when the bride walks down the isle! Weird. Oh, and the candle went out btw., because of the wind. We all had a good laugh.
To me, the best part of weddings is really all the happy people. The effort that all the friends and family had put into this occasion was a clear sign of their love for that couple and I just thought it was the nicest thing. And you know how you’d normally cringe when you see adults acting so … Weird, and it’s super embarrassing? Well, I actually found it really really touching, cause in that moment I wanted nothing else than to know I’d some day be that happy, and dance all crazy at my own wedding, surrounded by people I love. Like, most of them had been childhood friends. And now they were here, 20 or so years later, celebrating each others’ happiness. It was really something. (The dancing was awful, though. Really.)
I mean, look how happy!! This may be the best picture I’ve taken, ever.
The couple at the first wedding did the whole ballon thing which I found super cute, but this couple had opted for something else: Doves. Yup. It was pretty romantic, although the brides’ dove wouldn’t fly… (videooooo)
I had Schweinebraten with Kartoffelklöse for dinner! (Typical Bavarian) …. It was disgusting. I mean, the pig meat was okay, cause it kinda tastes like Stegt Flæsk (Danish traditional meat), but the potato stuff was just bvaaard. It tasted like artificial potato pudding, which is sad since it’s actually made of good quality german potatoes. The cake was great though, vanilla cream and fresh strawberries, and the entertainment was Génial. (Pardon, I’m taking french… )
Then the party moved out to a much smaller “drinking house”. It was basically a little house without a door (It’s know to get “hot in there”), and it’s lined with benches. Not for sitting – ooooh no! If you’re like me and you thought we just moved out there for more beer/wine (or in my case, sparkly water, cause you just can’t get proper “Still” water ANYWHERE here), and a few funny stories about the happy couple, you were wrong! The benches aren’t for sitting on, they’re for standing and dancing on.
Before the singing began
People do drink – But that’s not all! It doesn’t matter if you know the person beside you or not, you still link arms with them and sway around round, trying to follow the rhythm of the song, but because everyone is so drunk, we just end up bumping into each other, and it’s so absurd that you can’t help but laugh (if you’re sober, that is. 99 % of them were drunk, though, and thought they could sing…)
Also, people kept on pouring alcohol into my glass!!
Glorious picture of the groom
Yeah, nope, check again….
Anyway, that was pretty much it for the wedding… My younger host sister and I left the party around midnight… It’s not nearly as fun to party with drunk, older people as one would think….
Have a Great Weekend! Love, Bianca xx
P.S. Yes, that’s right, they drank beer and ate white hotdogs for breakfast… #yologermanswag hahaha
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